but the fact of the matter is that one of these days we have to stop praying for everybody to get mad and destroying things—and instead teach each other how to have the heart to live. destroying things is what capitalism does best, and it’s what we’ve been taught to love and what to do when we’re really angry. blow things up and you’re empowered! love and loving people is what is still called being a pussy. building love, community, and relationships is still called stupid/doesn’t make sense in this globalized world that expects you to get up and leave for any damn reason it decides.