It’s taking time to explore, consciously and purposefully, what the difference really is between flippantly saying, “Oh, sure, I like women,” and really finding women likeable. There are a lot of men who can respect women, and still cannot bring themselves to like us. […]

Thinking of women as likeable in a misogynist culture is truly a radical act.

Wanting to fuck women is not. Objectifying women is not. Hurting women is not. Marginalizing women is not.

But liking them is.