Healthy male sexuality doesn’t need mystery to continue to thrive. Grown-ups don’t need to be kept from the normal human realities of things like childbirth, menstruation, or the inevitable explosive consequences of food poisoning in order to remain attracted to their partners. Men ought to be angry at those (like Ablow) who insist that our libidos are so frail that they can be permanently damaged by exposure to natural biological processes. We’re better than that because we’re more flexible and adaptable than all that.