There has been quite a few discussion on why telling someone to be safe, and avoid getting themselves in bad situation, is NOT victim blaming.
Sit down and listen.
This is still victim blaming. You are still perpetuating Rape Culture.
I have to make this distinction clear: there is a…
Good text on rape culture, victim blaming and the “true face of rapists.” Go read it, especially if you still think rapists are sexually aroused strangers lurking behind bushes, and the clothes and behavior of the victim/survivor matter.
Thoughts?